How do you cope with having deformities, imperfections disfigurements, injuries, that won't go away ?

im 30 have bpd, which makes life very hard, ive had a terrible life to, but ontop of that i have physical disfigurements, imperfections, including:


torn ankle ligaments in my left ankle, i twist it very easy and go over on it, it makes clicking sounds, bone popping sounds.....it deffinatly needs surgery.





i have a crooked, bent little finger, that droops over, due to an injury months ago.....i was told nothing can be done about that.





i have damaged nerves in my right knuckle, due to an injury years ago, i have shooting pains if i hit something like a punching bag, if i press on it, i get shooting pains in it....i was told nothing could be done there either.





i have 2 missing teeth at the front, bottom row...the bottom 2 front teeth missing...due to an accident years ago....im trying to save up for dental implants.





im bald completley..





im unhappy with my manhood, the head on it is small.





has anyone got physical problems like this they live with that get you down ?

How do you cope with having deformities, imperfections disfigurements, injuries, that won't go away ?
My saying is, if people don't like you for who you are or accept you for who you are, then they ain't worth bothering with are they? So what if you have these imperfections etc etc. You are still you and most probably have a fantastic personality. It's not what is on the outside remember.


You are unique and your own person...


Just think to yourself, "I don't give a monkey's to what other people think about me".
Reply:we all have something and some people have many things. you have to do some work at a deeper level to change your attitudes. i'm not saying your problems are not real or making light of them, but when you have difficulties you must look deeper to find things that make you happy
Reply:Everyone has deformities and imperfections, not all are for you to see. I have a short left arm (almost 2inches) which my brother-in-law did not know about until two days ago. This what I want to say, people don't always see the imperfections until you point them out. I have other flaws but people don't see them until I point them out. The more you point out you flaws the more everyone sees them!!!!! As for the beautiful people some of them have black souls or hidden scars, don't envy them for a few are cursed.



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